Attracting your dream girl begins with how you respond to women. Now here I am going to take a few things for granted. One, I will assume that since you are reading this you are single. Two, I will also assume that you have tried some things that DO NOT work. So, what I would like for you to do right now is stop practicing the same techniques that don't work. Stop listening to the quote "pick up artists" that sell you on their pick-up lines. If you have used lines in the past and they didn't work, they probably NEVER will for you. Trust me, I know.

There are thousands and thousands of men out there who will not learn this one lesson. And they are doomed to spend the rest of their lives using pickup line after pickup line just hoping that one day some woman will be dumb enough to fall for one. Or there is the man who will buy into every single trick that comes onto the market - such as those audio cassettes with subliminal messages that tell women to sleep with him, or the sex scents that promise to make women immediately fall under your spell, or the books on hypnotizing women to get them to sleep with you.

Not you, though, you are not going to fall into one of those traps. My friend, the lies stop here. If you could see me, you would know I am speaking the truth. I am not a muscle-bound macho-man. I am not a millionaire. I am not a lawyer. Yet, you put me at a party with any or all the men above, and I will get the dates with the beautiful women. In fact, I am confident that any of the men who I have helped with my audio cassettes or this webpage could do as well as me, or even better.

"Now, how can you say that Brad?" You ask. "I thought you said you were shy and that you had trouble with women for years and years?" Well, that brings me to the second point of this and that is how you are treat women with whom you meet on your day to day activities. You see, I have power with more women than most guys because I know how to treat her, right on down to how to look at a woman. Going into every aspect of how to treat a woman is well beyond the scope of this, but you can dramatically increase your success rate if you will pay attention to the point I am telling you here.

I also realize how simplistic this is going to be for you, but I want you to do it anyway. From now on, when you look at a woman, I want you to look directly into her eyes. When I say this, many men say, "I already do that." But what they don't know is how they may not be being honest with me. Let me ask you a question. Do you ever look at a woman's breasts? How about her legs? How about her body? Most likely your response will be "Of course I do! I'm not gay!" You do, and so have I.

But here is the important point. I do NOT want you doing this anymore. From now on, I want you looking into a woman's eyes and not at her body. Women in this society more and more want men with whom they can communicate. If a woman catches you looking at her breasts or at her legs, she is going to think you want her for only one thing - sex. If she thinks that you just want sex from her, she will look elsewhere for a man.

If you can get this one point, you will be well on your way to dating the women of your dreams. And the nice part is that even shy men can do it! You don't have to be a socially gregarious person to make eye contact with people. It is just a matter of when you see someone, let your eyes meet hers.

The point is that I want you to begin the habit of direct eye contact. Let's just face it. The men, like me, who make good eye contact tend to relate well with women. The men who concentrate on a woman's breasts or body do not relate so well. Now I know, that you can probably think of some examples of men you know or have heard about who appear to be exempt from this rule. In fact, I can think of one man I know, who is a muscular model type who breaks this rule time and time again. And he tells me all the time about how he is dating this and that "incredibly gorgeous sex-fiend." Funny though..... I've never seen him in public with a woman.